If we are certainly not the last ones to raise the tone against the possible incompetence of a partner, it would be a question of questioning from time to time. Because men too have the advice to give us – especially in terms of fellatio.
We asked 5 men to give us their advice for a successful blowjob , or how to get the infos at the source.
1- “Masturbate by alternating speed”
The base of a successful blowjob: accompany a handjob cleverly performed . Beyond increasing the pleasure of our partner, the trick also allows us to control the oral penetration so as not to end up, because of a few seconds of an inadvertent misguided, with a penis that strokes the vocal cords. The advice of Maxime, the expert of a day: “tighten little sex and especially, alternate speed”.
2- “The unbeatable finger in the ass”
Thomas is formal: insert his index or “tickle the anus” is always a success. Especially for the sentences to enjoy. “The reason behind the pleasure that this area provides The intensity of prostatic orgasm , linked to the prostate, therefore, located at the front of the rectum.
“Men testify to a deeper orgasm, almost an ecstasy, close to the female orgasm, it breaks waves, or flares the body with pleasure, ” says Nathalie Giraud-Desforges, sex therapist, Doctissimo . If not all are great followers, it can still be worthwhile to tackle the subject, especially with arguments that can clearly counterbalance apprehension.
3- “Spit on the handle”
“It works and it’s exciting in the heat of the moment,” says Ali. No need to put a terrifying ardor either, you can simply slide saliva on the tip of the glans, then spread with the tongue. Other more significant: “It’s a recyclable lubricant, natural and artisanal so it’s super green”. Perfect if you go out with a follower of zero waste.
4- “Proceed to a quick sucking of the glans”
“This action causes a pretty incredible sensation, very similar to that of ejaculation, but has the distinct advantage of lasting longer,” says Leo. To do this, place your lips around the upper part of the sex of your partner, then empty the air by affixing your tongue, and suck. A technique that could potentially be called “sucker”, and that is likely to fly.
5- “Continue the act for five seconds after ejaculation”
… whether it be the blowjob itself or the masturbation that accompanies it. Because “stop when we enjoy can sometimes cut off the road,” says Emile. We stay concentrated until a few seconds after our partner has ejaculated, even if it means to fuck it everywhere. And then it will teach us to prepare the tissues before getting on all fours.